So when they see a woman with one or multiple children who has never been married, they make certain suppositions.
They assume that the previous man (or men) did not place high enough value upon the woman to wife her up.
This came out of the blue from my seven-year-old daughter Isabella – but then, little about our recent family life had been expected.
I think it holds up well and is highly relevant in today's world.]Not of all of these reasons apply to everyone.Some men are dating for sex, others are dating for marriage and sex, for example. Men, especially men with game, have a choice in women. Unless you’re a pedophile, it is extremely unlikely that a woman with a child has anything to offer that’s of benefit to you that a woman without a child lacks.Conversely, here are the downsides of dating a single mother, in no particular order:1) The kid(s) will always come first for her, and that’s the way it should be.You may consider bringing the child a small gift to show your good will and sincere interest in him, such as baseball cards for a collector or new crayons for an aspiring artist.Don’t bring anything extravagant, which he may perceive as an effort to buy his affection.I discovered quite quickly that I hated the word, as it emphasised what I've lost.